The Need For Courage In Counseling

The Need For Courage In Counseling

The Need For Courage In Counseling One of the biggest mistakes that many of my clients make about counseling is believing that I am going to fix their problems without them having to do anything. Intellectually, they come in ready to do the work, but fear, lack of...
One Reason Counseling Is Effective

One Reason Counseling Is Effective

One Reason Counseling Is Effective Believe it or not but the vast majority of mental illness is just a lack of interpersonal skills in knowing how to relate to others. I joke with my clients all the time that the DSM V (the manual that catalogs psychological...
Your Infidelity Is Just Selfish

Your Infidelity Is Just Selfish

Your Infidelity Is Just Selfish Infidelity is by definition a selfish act that traumatizes your spouse. Let Me Explain It’s selfish because you are only thinking about yourself and your own needs. In fact, the person you are having an affair with you don’t...
Your Spouse’s Affair Is Not Your Fault

Your Spouse’s Affair Is Not Your Fault

Your Spouse’s Affair Is Not Your Fault I want you to repeat after me. “Your spouse having an affair is not your fault!” I know that you might be feeling like it is. Or maybe your spouse is even trying to convince you that if you would just be more...